"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How should you treat girls with boyfriends?

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I'm wondering 'cause I ended up asking out a girl who has a boyfriend. She said yes so now I have a problem. I like this girl and all but dealing with her when she has a boyfriend is a pain.

When I go out with her should I just treat her like a single girl or maybe not escalate all that much?

What would you guys do in my situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is an extensive thread under The Archive which seems to always get clipped by the anti masta beta's.
 
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R19 said:
There is an extensive thread under The Archive which seems to always get clipped by the anti masta beta's.
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what's the thread called?
 
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The Archive "I have a boyfriend"
 
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R19 said:
The Archive "I have a boyfriend"
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That thread has nothing to do with me. She said yes when I asked her out, not "I have a boyfriend".

What I wanted to know is how you guys would handle this situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kal0051 said:
That thread has nothing to do with me. She said yes when I asked her out, not "I have a boyfriend".

What I wanted to know is how you guys would handle this situation.
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I was trying to add a different splitter topic within that thread as opposed to the 1,000,001st one. I repeatedly have had situations / boyfriends not disclosed or hidden from me. So much so that I now expect I am only one of several guys in play. I view the responsibility to be on those in the relationship.

Yeah, you'll go out with her and never run into him - ever... Hopefully he's a 'nice guy'.
 
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Who cares if she has a boyfriend Did you make that commitment to the guy or did she? What are you all of a sudden in charge of making she she sticks to traditional morals? Treat her like any other girl. You may get rejected because of the boyfriend but at least then you'll know where you stand. Just escalate as normal.
 
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