Dante420
Master Don Juan
Advice
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How Should You Smile? And How Can You Make Your Smile Better?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Poonani Maker
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I've FILLED my head with good thoughts. A nursery rhyme or some sunshiny tune I'll sing while I'm driving. Also, just generally being optimistic, opportunistic, and laughing full of love is the ONLY way to smile. Killer smile is the only way to smile. Just be a killer. Like, I guess, Russell Crowe in Gladiator when he talks about smiling at Death as Death smiles at us all.
Dante420
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Did you take a few hits of acid?Poonani Maker said:
Some people don't smile much or just don't know how much teeth to show or if they should show teeth, etc.
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A lot of times I don't show teeth, but they see me smilin on the inside. I'm always charismatic. I've been told that by married and unmarrieds alike. Married women tend to want to branch swing to me, I don't know why.
Dante420
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Are you the guy who played Kramer?Poonani Maker said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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No. He's racist, and Jewish. I'm Irish and don't hate all people who aren't like me, even though I think my way is the only way to live.Dante420 said: