"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How Should You Smile? And How Can You Make Your Smile Better?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've FILLED my head with good thoughts. A nursery rhyme or some sunshiny tune I'll sing while I'm driving. Also, just generally being optimistic, opportunistic, and laughing full of love is the ONLY way to smile. Killer smile is the only way to smile. Just be a killer. Like, I guess, Russell Crowe in Gladiator when he talks about smiling at Death as Death smiles at us all.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
I've FILLED my head with good thoughts. A nursery rhyme or some sunshiny tune I'll sing while I'm driving. Also, just generally being optimistic, opportunistic, and laughing full of love is the ONLY way to smile. Killer smile is the only way to smile. Just be a killer. Like, I guess, Russell Crowe in Gladiator when he talks about smiling at Death as Death smiles at us all.
Did you take a few hits of acid?

Some people don't smile much or just don't know how much teeth to show or if they should show teeth, etc.
 

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A lot of times I don't show teeth, but they see me smilin on the inside. I'm always charismatic. I've been told that by married and unmarrieds alike. Married women tend to want to branch swing to me, I don't know why.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
A lot of times I don't show teeth, but they see me smilin on the inside. I'm always charismatic. I've been told that by married and unmarrieds alike. Married women tend to want to branch swing to me, I don't know why.
Are you the guy who played Kramer?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dante420 said:
Are you the guy who played Kramer?
No. He's racist, and Jewish. I'm Irish and don't hate all people who aren't like me, even though I think my way is the only way to live.
 

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If you're even THINKING about smiling, or making a conscious effort to smile, it never comes as genuine.

You should work on being happy, and let a real smile spring to life.
 

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Dante420 said:
Did you take a few hits of acid?
Dante420 said:
Are you the guy who played Kramer?
Gotta ask, what's with the attitude? The guy is replying to your thread question, and you insult him for it. "a few hits of acid". It looks like smiling isn't the main problem here.
 
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