How should this be done?

[RiceandChicken]

I've been reading that if you don't care about what the girl does, you actually male better progress. Is it true? Or am I looking and thinking about it the wrong way? Thanks for response.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Good question.

Yes, that's generally good advice. Nothing the girl does should BOTHER you. Never let her affect you negatively, always have a good time.

If she's being fun and social, give her some attention and credit. Be fun and social WITH her. If she is more reserved, don't try to cheer her up, just have a lot of fun and let the mood be infectious.

Hope that helped.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Yes. However, if you don't care in the sense that you don't take any action, then you will fail. You must take action, but anyone's reaction shall not affect you in any way.

 

[alxrose04]

Yep! You don't care what she does because you should be too busy living an AWESOME life! So awesome that she'll be bugging you to join it. You should bringing her into your world. I agree with everyone who wrote on this thread. When she pops up in your world, then take action! Since she's gonna want to be in your world, anything you do will be cool, so you should be worry free.

 

[Spawn_Xe]

it's an interesting dynamic. I've found myself attracting HB9s in the passed due mostly to me convincing myself I had no chance with them. Of course it all goes to sh!t when they start showing interest and the I reciprocate and in turn puts them off! (one reason for coming here!)

Its like.. have you ever noticed you seem to naturally attract women more when you're in an LTR than single?...