How should I respond to this urgent

[marmel75]

Here you go. I do appreciate the help

1.) No, i haven't b@nged her yet.
2.) Shes cool to hang out and got's her crap together.
3.) She hasn't done much at all. Paid for some thing but that all
4.) I wanted to be able to focus on her, then typically do my half @ss aprroach and get everything I can before I move on.

I didn't need to read anymore than the 1st point. You already lost. She views you as her gay male friend. How do you go out with a girl who you want to bang that many times but not bang her?

You simply pushed yourself deeper into the friend zone. Meanwhile she is out getting railed by some dude she just met online or at the club.

You are only "dating her" in your mind. She sees it as going out with her gay male friend. Have you attempted to escalate even? Think about it bro. If this chick was that into you, do you think she would allow herself to get so turned on by being in your presence 8 or 9 times that she wouldn't have basically forced you to Fvck her??

 

[tennisbuck12]

Your right. Prolly no way for me to dig myself out of this situation. Ill go ghost and move on.

 

[Yewki]

This thread makes me cringe.

OP, stop caring about the little things. You made a thread asking what she meant by "What a guy" ... even you must realize how stupid this is now.

What has she done to deserve a free delivered dinner? Stop supplicating.

Yes, you totally sh*t the bed by not escalating after all those dates. But if she's still interested in seeing you, then schedule another date and actually try to escalate this time. Yeah maybe she thinks you're a beta chump and friendzoned you. Maybe she's a chump herself and secretly hopes you make a move. Either way, doesn't matter. Don't just tuck your tail between your legs and run home like a coward. Go out like a man and make a damn move.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Gentlemen, I shall escalate and won't less this bored down. Shes super religous which has messed up my game, I was trying to be Mr. Rogers and acting like a loser. I put her on a pedestal, when I'm the trophey.

I read the crap I wrote and I got sick to my stomach. Damn.

 

[stevo]

You've been on 8-9 nights in two months? oh boy.

Where do you guys presently stand? do you have an upcoming date? do you have a recent text convo?

You need to redirect the boat fast before it sinks.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yes, on Saturday night she needs to give me items she bought for me 1/2 price at her company.

 

[stevo]

Yes, on Saturday night she needs to give me items she bought for me 1/2 price at her company.

You invited her over to your place for Saturday right?

Just to clarify, are you going on a date (saturday) and she's bringing the items with her or are you only meeting for her to drop off the items?

 

[tennisbuck12]

Yes, shes coming to my place to drop off the items. I suggested sweatpants movie/drinks.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Here you go. I do appreciate the help

1.) No, i haven't b@nged her yet.

What we're you waiting on? The New Year?

2.) Shes cool to hang out

And? Are you trying to f*ck this chick or be her friend?

and got's her crap together.

What does that even mean and how does it benefit you?

3.) She hasn't done much at all. Paid for some thing but that all

Okay, reciprocate and take her to

or

4.) I wanted to be able to focus on her

Why do you want to focus in on a chick that isn't your girlfriend? Ole girl got you hella sprung.

 

[tennisbuck12]

Rex, I want to in the worst way! Your advise is great, bring down my attention to her and get more output.

I feel such like a sap right now.

 

[stevo]

Yes, shes coming to my place to drop off the items. I suggested sweatpants movie/drinks.

Haha not to be mean but you need some confidence boost.

Let's just focus on the good.

She's coming over to your place, that's a good thing.

What is she expecting to happen tomorrow? That you make a fcuking move even if she only spends 5mins at your place.

Practice your moves before she gets there, walk around acting what would happen, when and where.
You only have two things to accomplish.
1. Relax
2. Kiss her.

After which you continue to escalate as you refer back to your two requirements.

From now till Saturday, don't initiate text/call.

If she texts you first, your response has to be sexual.
Post her text messages here and we'll tell you what to reply with.

 

[marmel75]

Definitely go for it, but don't be too surprised if it doesn't go well.

You are going to be acting "weird", and what that means is you have shown her who you are and she is comfortable with that, and now you are going to completely do a 180 and act in a way she doesn't see you as being. I don't see this ending well, but go for it

 

[tennisbuck12]

Thanks Guys! When she does text, ill post it and your info has been priceless.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Thanks Guys! When she does text, ill post it and your info has been priceless.

Make her speak to you on the phone. Also, you next to utilize the other chicks. One of those broads need to be at your house when she comes to drop off your stuff. Make the introductions, chat for a minute, then send old girl on her way. Walk her to car and tell her to call you at a time that's convenient for you.

 

[Maximus Rex]

What happened with this dude? Are we to assume that she never texted him back?

 

[Julian]

lol he took his gf to chuckee cheese cuz honestly OP literally has to be like 12

 

[Lozboss]

Was this a troll thread?