Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How Should I React?

onemorerobot

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My girlfriend seems to find it necessary to let me know when she thinks another guy is hot. If there's someone on television who she thinks is hot, she makes sure to tell me. Now I'm not sure how to react to this. I'm not going to deny that I'm a little insecure when it comes to the way I look, but I don't need to know about every man she finds attractive. I never mention to her any woman I find attractive, because I want her to feel like she's the most attractive woman in my life. I just told her what I thought about her doing this, and she got pissed, called me a jackass and told me she didn't want to talk to me right now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rocky_mtn

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Tell her to go fvck him, then kick her out. When she asks if you are serious, tell her **** yea, you don't sit around being disrespected by someone telling you that other guys are hot. You don't pull that sh!t on her and you shouldn't have to put up with that.
 

sheep-man

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going to agree with silverback here do it but like do it way more then she does it , and escalate it so its worse like for instance say your watching a tv show with some hot chik in it say you find her extremly attractive then list sexual things u could do to her that u dont do with her girl, and also you could compare her to ure current girl and make her out to be way better looking, its meen but she will get the picture and stop
 

rocky_mtn

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Disagree with both of you, don't play her game. When you do this you are on her own terms. If you call her sh!t and then take it to a different level then you are in control.

Let her know that the games are unacceptable.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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