"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how should i hook up wit this cheerleader?

snoop8

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ok, well i know her since last year but we didnt talked to each other, we take the bus together to go to school, and well she hangs around wit gangbangers and i get this tingly lil feeling that shes a lil slutty lol. shes a HB9, and well, if she does come up to be like slutty and stuff, how can i make her MY slut and make her stop being slutty while shes wit me? like dont go around wit other guys while shes wit me. cause u know, shes a cheerleader and they sometimes kinda popular.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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once a *****, always a *****. get what you want and get out. she isn't changing for anyone, and it's not going to start with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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familyguyfan

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The same way you would get any girl maybe? What kind of a thread is this, there's no real question. Just look in the bible for some tips or something. I don't mean to be an ass, but we have SO many pointless threads like this lately in this forum
 

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FamilyGuyFan I agree 100%.

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:down:
 

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I agree with familyguyfan. Read the bible a few times, till you have a method, and style that you like, then expand upon that style. Should reduce your dependancy upon sosuave.
 
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