"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how should i hook up wit this cheerleader?

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ok, well i know her since last year but we didnt talked to each other, we take the bus together to go to school, and well she hangs around wit gangbangers and i get this tingly lil feeling that shes a lil slutty lol. shes a HB9, and well, if she does come up to be like slutty and stuff, how can i make her MY slut and make her stop being slutty while shes wit me? like dont go around wit other guys while shes wit me. cause u know, shes a cheerleader and they sometimes kinda popular.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Javelin44

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once a *****, always a *****. get what you want and get out. she isn't changing for anyone, and it's not going to start with you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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familyguyfan

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The same way you would get any girl maybe? What kind of a thread is this, there's no real question. Just look in the bible for some tips or something. I don't mean to be an ass, but we have SO many pointless threads like this lately in this forum
 

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FamilyGuyFan I agree 100%.

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I agree with familyguyfan. Read the bible a few times, till you have a method, and style that you like, then expand upon that style. Should reduce your dependancy upon sosuave.
 
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