How should I handle this?

[TheFatGuy56]

I went out with this girl for the first time. We went dancing. We absolutley had a wonderful time together. I've never had a better first date in my life. Never had a better time in my life. We've known each other for a while, but we didn't know each other very personally. One thing I know about her is that she is usually shy, but when she was around me she really opened up. Wasnt shy at all. I know that she was really interested in me and enjoyed being with me. No doubt about it, plus she even told me how much of a great time she had and all. When I asked her on a second date, she didnt really seem too interested. She had a sort of an acceptable excuse, but it kinda made me wonder if she was interested in me at all, even though I thought I was certain she was interested. I dont know if shes being a woman and tryin to toy with my mind or what. How should I finally get her to go on a second date with me without seeming to desperate or coming on too strong or anything. How should I handle this whole situation in general. I think I really might like her, and I am very interested in her and I dont want to give up too fast. Please help me out.

 

[DJnomore]

Originally posted by TheFatGuy56
I went out with this girl for the first time. We went dancing. We absolutley had a wonderful time together.

Rule #1: You had a great time.

Rule #2: Only her action tell you if she had a great time.

Rule #3: If she said no and you want to ask her our again wait a week or two and ask her out ONE more time.

If she had a great time it will work out.

If not don't worry the next one will make you feel just as good.

 

[HuuBinh]

you have to realize one thing that a lot of times, girls will find a guy just to hang out & have fun with, but w/o any intention of hooking up.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

How many times have we told all you to judge girls by what they do, NOT WHAT THEY SAY!!

Girls hate being mean when they turn guys down. I'm sure she said she had a good time because you mentioned it. Anyways, if she interested in you AT ALL (even as a friend) she'll hang out with you again.

I'd try one last time in about a week, if she declines and doesn't offer another night.....



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[Ice Cold]

Just ask her ouy again. Hug her and tell her to tell you about herself. Tell her that you want to know her as a person, you find her interesting, intriguing...

Just ask her out again...

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Ask her out in a light-hearted way to do a fun activity - and if she says 'no' then don't take it too seriously and just say that you thought she was good company and fun to be with. If she says yes, then make sure you pursue her romantically and go for the kiss - don't try to be friends with her!!

Oh yeah, LOSE SOME WEIGHT!!!!!