How should I handle this ? please advise me !

[chatoh]

Hi !
A long time ago (in late 2007) I had a very short sexual relationship with a 37 year old woman.
Then she dumped me in the coldest manner possible as if I was some disposable object. When I wanted to go back to her, she rejected me more than once. However, once she needed two favors from me, and contacted me in a very pleasant manner , and I was so naive that I helped her through and lend her a helping hand, because I still had feelings for her.
Nevertheless, when I wanted to have a second chance with her, she kept rejecting me. So once, about a yera ago, I sent her an e-mail, saying she had "used" me to obtain favors.
About a month ago I sent her an e-mail greeting her for her birthday, she didn´t even reply. A few days ago, I sent her an e-mail asking her if she could recommend me a printshop for a book I have to print , she hasn´t even replied at all.
I am about to send her an e-mail copying the e-mails she sent me , when she was very nice to me asking for favors, and telling her, what a b**t**ch* she was using me.
Should I do it ?, and tell her she is a manipulative b*t*c*h** who had sex with me a few times, then dumped me, and then had the gust to ask me for favors (which I obliged), or should I just let go, and let things just be ???
Please I need some advise, because that *b*t*ch**´s attitude makes me bitter, and I don´t know how to handle it, just completely forget her, or lash out at her for being such a manipulative *b t ch****.
Thanks !
Chatoh

 

[darkstarrr]

I am about to send her an e-mail copying the e-mails she sent me , when she was very nice to me asking for favors, and telling her, what a b**t**ch* she was using me.
Should I do it?

What you are going through is normal but for God's sake No! Don't do ANYTHING yet.

 

[horaholic]

Come on, dude! All of this is nobody's fault but yours. You joined this site before you met this chick, and obviously didnt learn a thing from it. You did favors for you after she shyt on you, and got shyt on again. THEN, you wish this bytch happy birthday over a YEAR later? You said yourself you only had sex a few times. What exactly is the big deal here? She's not manipulative, you are just acting like a supplicating wuss-bag. Im sorry, but it needs to be said.

You should NEVER contact this woman again. You never should have in the first place. Act like a man. You should read some of the stuff on this site, instead of posting, looking for an answer to an obvious question. Why the hell do even still have this chicks email?

 

[WC2]

Stop wasting your time with old women bro. Stop sending emails, be productive. Find new YOUNGER women.

 

[WhtRbt]

Dude you need to completely forget about this girl like she never even existed. Instead of sending her all of her old emails, just delete them all.

 

[Warrior74]

Stop handing this woman your self respect and move on. She obviously thinks you are lower than dirt if she is treating you this way, and if you continue to allow it then she's right. She told you she was using you and you still continue to talk to her? Cut off all communication and move on! You need to work on your innergame issues and your issues with women. You deserve better man, you have to believe that. Don't you think you deserve better than this?

 

[romangod]

Hi !
So once, about a yera ago, I sent her an e-mail, saying she had "used" me to obtain favors.
About a month ago I sent her an e-mail greeting her for her birthday, she didn´t even reply.

A few days ago, I sent her an e-mail asking her if she could recommend me a printshop for a book I have to print , she hasn´t even replied at all.


I am about to send her an e-mail copying the e-mails she sent me , when she was very nice to me asking for favors, and telling her, what a b**t**ch* she was using me.

Chatoh

I don't think you really like her. I think you just like sending her E-mails.

However, stalking her by e-mails is probably not a good idea.


Cheers!

 

[bam bam]

learn and move on

 

[chatoh]

Thanks for all your comments. I appreciate your advise. I´ll just forget that manipulative woman, she ain´t worth it.