Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How should i dump this girl?? ASAP!!

dante82

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I have been goin out with this girl for a while now and i dont really feel anything with her no more. I dont really like her anymore as she is not that hot. I want to get a new girl. She is really into me though an she is always like if u get me mad i will beat you and makes a joke about it. we always argue and i just wanna end this. she alwys talks about wierd stuf too. Help me think of somthin to say for tomorow. Thank you


ps i was thinking somthing like : "i just dont like how we have been argueing so i think it is over". i think this is a bad line though
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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familyguyfan

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Just say you're not interested in a relationship at this point in your life. You could add that you want to focus on schoolwork and don't want to have to deal with commitment. You are young and don't want to be tied up in a relationship.

Then wait 2-3 weeks and go out with that other girl you want.
 

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but

i could see her saying somthing like i wont be a hassal i mean she WILL do ANYTHING to stay with me. please help i like the advice but the schoolwork thing wont work out i dont think.
 

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well

that is pretty good. how does this sound " hey so and so i dont think this is going to work because we argue too much and i just dont think we should go out anymore. but at least we can still be friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am no longer interested in persuing this relationship.

Walk.
 

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I've always been of the 'blunt force' type. I would just tell her that it has been great, but that you don't think that you work well with her/she isn't what you're looking for, but your time with her has been great.

Just think of what girls say to guys when they break up with them. Let her down easy, try not to really make her feel worthless, don't toss blame. Just tell her it has to happen in the interest of saving your time and hers.
 
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