"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How should i dump this girl?? ASAP!!

dante82

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I have been goin out with this girl for a while now and i dont really feel anything with her no more. I dont really like her anymore as she is not that hot. I want to get a new girl. She is really into me though an she is always like if u get me mad i will beat you and makes a joke about it. we always argue and i just wanna end this. she alwys talks about wierd stuf too. Help me think of somthin to say for tomorow. Thank you


ps i was thinking somthing like : "i just dont like how we have been argueing so i think it is over". i think this is a bad line though
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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familyguyfan

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Just say you're not interested in a relationship at this point in your life. You could add that you want to focus on schoolwork and don't want to have to deal with commitment. You are young and don't want to be tied up in a relationship.

Then wait 2-3 weeks and go out with that other girl you want.
 

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but

i could see her saying somthing like i wont be a hassal i mean she WILL do ANYTHING to stay with me. please help i like the advice but the schoolwork thing wont work out i dont think.
 

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well

that is pretty good. how does this sound " hey so and so i dont think this is going to work because we argue too much and i just dont think we should go out anymore. but at least we can still be friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am no longer interested in persuing this relationship.

Walk.
 

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I've always been of the 'blunt force' type. I would just tell her that it has been great, but that you don't think that you work well with her/she isn't what you're looking for, but your time with her has been great.

Just think of what girls say to guys when they break up with them. Let her down easy, try not to really make her feel worthless, don't toss blame. Just tell her it has to happen in the interest of saving your time and hers.
 
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