"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How should i dump this girl?? ASAP!!

dante82

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I have been goin out with this girl for a while now and i dont really feel anything with her no more. I dont really like her anymore as she is not that hot. I want to get a new girl. She is really into me though an she is always like if u get me mad i will beat you and makes a joke about it. we always argue and i just wanna end this. she alwys talks about wierd stuf too. Help me think of somthin to say for tomorow. Thank you


ps i was thinking somthing like : "i just dont like how we have been argueing so i think it is over". i think this is a bad line though
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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familyguyfan

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Just say you're not interested in a relationship at this point in your life. You could add that you want to focus on schoolwork and don't want to have to deal with commitment. You are young and don't want to be tied up in a relationship.

Then wait 2-3 weeks and go out with that other girl you want.
 

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but

i could see her saying somthing like i wont be a hassal i mean she WILL do ANYTHING to stay with me. please help i like the advice but the schoolwork thing wont work out i dont think.
 

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well

that is pretty good. how does this sound " hey so and so i dont think this is going to work because we argue too much and i just dont think we should go out anymore. but at least we can still be friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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I am no longer interested in persuing this relationship.

Walk.
 

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I've always been of the 'blunt force' type. I would just tell her that it has been great, but that you don't think that you work well with her/she isn't what you're looking for, but your time with her has been great.

Just think of what girls say to guys when they break up with them. Let her down easy, try not to really make her feel worthless, don't toss blame. Just tell her it has to happen in the interest of saving your time and hers.
 
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