"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how should i deal with this

oneboy21

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I am planning to sign-up for work out sessions at my local gym, i got an email from the gym director saying that there will be this girl who is going to take work out sessions, it will be group sessions. I never talked to this girl before and i just know her name, since she has a name tag.


Now if am going to gym to get some work done, like my core and fat reduction, when i first enquired about sessions, i asked them that i need a guy to train me, but at that time there were not many people to start group sessions.

When i go the gym, i need to explain her what i am expecting from the sessions, which will be basically like fat reduction and muscle building. will this be an DLV for me, this girl is cute a 6/7. I am not really into her but what can i do to increase my chance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm in the Mood

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It's a DLV if you get so easily distracted by her that you forget what you're going to the gym for. If you're not into her then you don't need care about your chances with her either.

You should worry less about what gender your trainer is and focus on losing some weight and building some muscle!
 

Ace_Magnamus

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work on yourself first...that is what you are there for.....try to pick her up after you lose some weight and build some muscle. you will get rejected. wait till its over till you try anything..... then you can pick up better looking chicks. you are losing sight of your goal....that is to improve you...not pick up chicks at your gym.
 
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