"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how should i deal with this

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oneboy21

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I am planning to sign-up for work out sessions at my local gym, i got an email from the gym director saying that there will be this girl who is going to take work out sessions, it will be group sessions. I never talked to this girl before and i just know her name, since she has a name tag.


Now if am going to gym to get some work done, like my core and fat reduction, when i first enquired about sessions, i asked them that i need a guy to train me, but at that time there were not many people to start group sessions.

When i go the gym, i need to explain her what i am expecting from the sessions, which will be basically like fat reduction and muscle building. will this be an DLV for me, this girl is cute a 6/7. I am not really into her but what can i do to increase my chance.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm in the Mood

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It's a DLV if you get so easily distracted by her that you forget what you're going to the gym for. If you're not into her then you don't need care about your chances with her either.

You should worry less about what gender your trainer is and focus on losing some weight and building some muscle!
 
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work on yourself first...that is what you are there for.....try to pick her up after you lose some weight and build some muscle. you will get rejected. wait till its over till you try anything..... then you can pick up better looking chicks. you are losing sight of your goal....that is to improve you...not pick up chicks at your gym.
 
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