"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how should i deal with this

oneboy21

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I am planning to sign-up for work out sessions at my local gym, i got an email from the gym director saying that there will be this girl who is going to take work out sessions, it will be group sessions. I never talked to this girl before and i just know her name, since she has a name tag.


Now if am going to gym to get some work done, like my core and fat reduction, when i first enquired about sessions, i asked them that i need a guy to train me, but at that time there were not many people to start group sessions.

When i go the gym, i need to explain her what i am expecting from the sessions, which will be basically like fat reduction and muscle building. will this be an DLV for me, this girl is cute a 6/7. I am not really into her but what can i do to increase my chance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm in the Mood

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It's a DLV if you get so easily distracted by her that you forget what you're going to the gym for. If you're not into her then you don't need care about your chances with her either.

You should worry less about what gender your trainer is and focus on losing some weight and building some muscle!
 

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work on yourself first...that is what you are there for.....try to pick her up after you lose some weight and build some muscle. you will get rejected. wait till its over till you try anything..... then you can pick up better looking chicks. you are losing sight of your goal....that is to improve you...not pick up chicks at your gym.
 
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