"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How should I deal with this girl?

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SoulMan13

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So there's this girl I've been gaming for about 2-3 weeks at college. I managed to number close at the end of the second week. We are in a couple of the same classes and she's been giving me IOI's frequently.

We have been spending most of our lunch breaks together and talk for at least 2 hours around 3 days a week. She never initiates a face to face conversation, it is always me, however, she is receptive and attentive when I approach her. If she sees me she will just give me a really big smile and carry on walking and if I don't initiate a conversation we won't talk. She initiates text conversations, but when I respond to her texts she just ignores them and doesn't reply. (I did respond to the texts around 3-4 hours late as I was busy). Also, on my birthday I didn't receive any text, call etc from her to wish me a Happy Birthday. It's possible she could have forgot, however, she did mention it to me the day before while we were discussing what present she should give me lol.

Should I freeze her out? What would be the best way of implementing the freeze out? Or do you have any other suggestions/ideas about what I should do about this girl? I have no problem moving on if you think it would be best.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She might be an AW or have mixed feelings with you which usually means you're being too needy or there is another guy she likes.

The texting/calling needs to be reduced to minimal, you are now always 'busy.' Hang out with different people or maybe invite more so its just not you and her. 2 hours a day is a bit long.

After that, go Ghost. Only initiate whe SHE talks to YOU. And if she messages you reply late and if its a phone call make it brief(10mins ish) saying you gotta run. While going Ghost, hit up some other girls.
 
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Frayzer said:
She might be an AW or have mixed feelings with you which usually means you're being too needy or there is another guy she likes.

The texting/calling needs to be reduced to minimal, you are now always 'busy.' Hang out with different people or maybe invite more so its just not you and her. 2 hours a day is a bit long.

After that, go Ghost. Only initiate whe SHE talks to YOU. And if she messages you reply late and if its a phone call make it brief(10mins ish) saying you gotta run. While going Ghost, hit up some other girls.
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He's basically got it. Do this.
 
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