"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How should I deal with this girl?

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SoulMan13

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So there's this girl I've been gaming for about 2-3 weeks at college. I managed to number close at the end of the second week. We are in a couple of the same classes and she's been giving me IOI's frequently.

We have been spending most of our lunch breaks together and talk for at least 2 hours around 3 days a week. She never initiates a face to face conversation, it is always me, however, she is receptive and attentive when I approach her. If she sees me she will just give me a really big smile and carry on walking and if I don't initiate a conversation we won't talk. She initiates text conversations, but when I respond to her texts she just ignores them and doesn't reply. (I did respond to the texts around 3-4 hours late as I was busy). Also, on my birthday I didn't receive any text, call etc from her to wish me a Happy Birthday. It's possible she could have forgot, however, she did mention it to me the day before while we were discussing what present she should give me lol.

Should I freeze her out? What would be the best way of implementing the freeze out? Or do you have any other suggestions/ideas about what I should do about this girl? I have no problem moving on if you think it would be best.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She might be an AW or have mixed feelings with you which usually means you're being too needy or there is another guy she likes.

The texting/calling needs to be reduced to minimal, you are now always 'busy.' Hang out with different people or maybe invite more so its just not you and her. 2 hours a day is a bit long.

After that, go Ghost. Only initiate whe SHE talks to YOU. And if she messages you reply late and if its a phone call make it brief(10mins ish) saying you gotta run. While going Ghost, hit up some other girls.
 
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Frayzer said:
She might be an AW or have mixed feelings with you which usually means you're being too needy or there is another guy she likes.

The texting/calling needs to be reduced to minimal, you are now always 'busy.' Hang out with different people or maybe invite more so its just not you and her. 2 hours a day is a bit long.

After that, go Ghost. Only initiate whe SHE talks to YOU. And if she messages you reply late and if its a phone call make it brief(10mins ish) saying you gotta run. While going Ghost, hit up some other girls.
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He's basically got it. Do this.
 
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