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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How should I attempt to bring up Religion?

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Basically I was born a Religion that I don't like or follow. However despite religion being what you believe in people still classify me as the religion I was born. If anyone has ever seen the move The Believer that is basically who I am minus the gang behavior. My father is Christian and my mother was Jewish and technically I'm Jewish despite the fact that I have more faith in the christian religion then Judaism I'm still Jewish since it runs though the mother. I'm ashamed of this. My current GF is Catholic and I have reason to believe that she may have antisemitic beliefs as do I only that I'm self loathing. She's coming over my house probably on Sunday and will see some accessories that will basically tell her that it's a Jewish household. How exactly do I go about telling her this while admitting I'm not happy about who I am?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexLefty

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Why the hell does it matter? Religion is a CHOICE. Don't like what you were born into? Change it. Get rid of it. Whatever.
Agreed, religion is a choice. And, to bring up another point, is religion really such a BIG deal. There have been countless wars throughout history and millions of people have died due to what they believe, I say, let them do what ever they damn well please, though i do not personally believe in religion, its not as big a fvcking deal as people make it out to be. and do you actually know how much this girl cares about religion?? she may be very into it or passionate about it (as it seems you are), but then again, maybe she's like me and doesn't give a fvck...point being, if she doesn't care, then does it really matter?

hope it helps bro
 

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In my Opinion, i wouldn't bring up religion in a conversation, Things can get really heated in religious conversation (not in the good way either). and its just best not to bring it up.
maybe she wont even notice the Jewish accomodies in your house, if she does, then truthfully explain it to her, and attempt to close the conversation afterwards
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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