ive known this girl for about a year but weve recently started hanging out, going to concerts and such...she might be interested in me but im not sure i would like to ask her out on a serious date but i dont know what i should say.....any suggestions?
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how should i ask her out?
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DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
What's important is not what you say but how you say it...
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Not at his stage.
If this girl wants him - she just wants him to MAKE A DARN MOVE. Wether he sounds weak, gay or pathetic she will be jump'N up N down of joy. If she doesn't want him - it doesn't matter how smooth he says it - it will still be no.
Dee-Zy is right, it's much less technique, much more simply having the balls to do it, so ask her if she wants to go out, if she does, great, if not, it doesn't matter, there was nothing more you could have done and at least you found out without wasting any more effort.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
True...
With that question it's either success or failure/yes or do.
It's best someone fails and not feel totally devastated by it.
Being in a win/win situation is a good thing so johnblaze should have fun when asking that question.
Knowing it's a numbers game, knowing experience is being gained and observation results in FUN.
With that question it's either success or failure/yes or do.
It's best someone fails and not feel totally devastated by it.
Being in a win/win situation is a good thing so johnblaze should have fun when asking that question.
Knowing it's a numbers game, knowing experience is being gained and observation results in FUN.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't ask her out for a weekend date, too much applied dating pressure. Ask her to go out on a Wednesday or Thursday to something light like a comedy club or to fill in for your bowling partner who just canceled.
Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
NO NO NO.
Your bowling partner did NOT cancel.
You want to go on a date with her - not 'use her as a replacement for your bowling partner'.
So act accordingly. You want her - you SHOW her you want her. No excuses, no this, no that.
Why do you have to make up excuses to take a girl out?
Your bowling partner did NOT cancel.
You want to go on a date with her - not 'use her as a replacement for your bowling partner'.
So act accordingly. You want her - you SHOW her you want her. No excuses, no this, no that.
Why do you have to make up excuses to take a girl out?
SLIKKER_THAN_AVG
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WHAT THE F*CK??
Ask her..straight out no..Tell her.."Hey I wanna take you out on friday how does seven sound"
There. You're done.
I'm not even going to comment..but in short..this is the worse advice i've seen in a while..how more pansy ass can you get?
Ask her..straight out no..Tell her.."Hey I wanna take you out on friday how does seven sound"
There. You're done.
Eyecandie4ya
Senior Don Juan
A close mouth doesn't get fed! I've played that role and you just don't know how much nookie I miss out on. The females even told me aftewards that I could've got some play if I had made a move, but i didn't like a chump. Act man. The only thing she can tell you is yes or no!
period.
period.
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MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
^Then make sure to use the words "on a date" in that sentence too.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.