"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How should i approach this girl?

Alessar

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Thought id ask since im on here anyway. Basicaly there is a girl in my class pretty good looking but i dont really know hot to start talking to her. We dont really sit next to each other and there isnt anyway i can casually say hi to her. And i thought just walking up to her and starting talking out of the blue is a bit TOO straight forward. I might as wel come up with a sign "GO OUT WITH ME". I mean that is my intention but i actually wanna get to know her a little. So any recomendations and advices. Thanks in advnace.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm just going to assume you are in high school?

Try entering the class when she does...and if she looks and you...look back and smile, a good smile at that. then possibly after class leave the same time as she does and just say "hi, my name is _____, what's yours"...orrrrr crack a joke like "pretty sure that was boring class *smile while saying it* hi i'm _____, what's your name?"
 

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Yeaaaaah im in uh...college lol. Its communit college though not alot of socializing etc. So yeah. And thats what i meant i could come up and just start talking to her like that but isnt it a bit to straight forward?
 

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I personally don't think so...unless you somehow RANDOMLY get a chance to somehow shoot a comment or talk to her...like a small group in class discussion or something like that.
 

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Alright Ill give it a shot. Lol. Hope shes not gonna tell me shes a lesbian. I have great luck finding those and asking them out. Lol. Thanx
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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