"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How should i approach this girl?

Alessar

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Thought id ask since im on here anyway. Basicaly there is a girl in my class pretty good looking but i dont really know hot to start talking to her. We dont really sit next to each other and there isnt anyway i can casually say hi to her. And i thought just walking up to her and starting talking out of the blue is a bit TOO straight forward. I might as wel come up with a sign "GO OUT WITH ME". I mean that is my intention but i actually wanna get to know her a little. So any recomendations and advices. Thanks in advnace.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm just going to assume you are in high school?

Try entering the class when she does...and if she looks and you...look back and smile, a good smile at that. then possibly after class leave the same time as she does and just say "hi, my name is _____, what's yours"...orrrrr crack a joke like "pretty sure that was boring class *smile while saying it* hi i'm _____, what's your name?"
 

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Yeaaaaah im in uh...college lol. Its communit college though not alot of socializing etc. So yeah. And thats what i meant i could come up and just start talking to her like that but isnt it a bit to straight forward?
 

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I personally don't think so...unless you somehow RANDOMLY get a chance to somehow shoot a comment or talk to her...like a small group in class discussion or something like that.
 

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Alright Ill give it a shot. Lol. Hope shes not gonna tell me shes a lesbian. I have great luck finding those and asking them out. Lol. Thanx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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