Let me fill you in on this little situation that I'm having. Lately, my LTR has been giving me attitude, not showing me affection, and I caught her lying to me on multiple occasions. Obviously, I broke up with her on the spot, and when she called me a couple of hours later saying she was sorry, I blew her off.
I asked for explanations on multiple occasions, and she explained some things by stress in her life, and other things she had no explanation for. However, she tells me that she realized what she did wrong and if she had the chance to, she wouldn't do things the same way as before. She is repentant. However, I tell her that I'm still confused and I can't see her as a girlfriend right now because she betrayed my trust and stabbed me in the back many times.
She seems repentant, but not enough, and that's the reason I'm not giving her another chance. I get the feeling that she doesn't mean what she say, even though she cries and says it like she means it... To me, something is missing, and I don't know what.
She tells me she's going to wait for my decision, but she might not be around forever. This girl has a lot of street-smart, that's why I need to be steered in the right direction with the following:
How do I act with her now? I told her that I went clubbing, and that I danced with other chicks. Why wouldn't I, I'm single! But she tells me she wouldn't do something like that. She's convinced that I had sex with other girls ever since I broke up with her, even though I tell her the opposite.
Do I C+F her, and should I be a tease? How am I supposed to act with her to make her want me even more, because I want to make her run after me.
I asked for explanations on multiple occasions, and she explained some things by stress in her life, and other things she had no explanation for. However, she tells me that she realized what she did wrong and if she had the chance to, she wouldn't do things the same way as before. She is repentant. However, I tell her that I'm still confused and I can't see her as a girlfriend right now because she betrayed my trust and stabbed me in the back many times.
She seems repentant, but not enough, and that's the reason I'm not giving her another chance. I get the feeling that she doesn't mean what she say, even though she cries and says it like she means it... To me, something is missing, and I don't know what.
She tells me she's going to wait for my decision, but she might not be around forever. This girl has a lot of street-smart, that's why I need to be steered in the right direction with the following:
How do I act with her now? I told her that I went clubbing, and that I danced with other chicks. Why wouldn't I, I'm single! But she tells me she wouldn't do something like that. She's convinced that I had sex with other girls ever since I broke up with her, even though I tell her the opposite.
Do I C+F her, and should I be a tease? How am I supposed to act with her to make her want me even more, because I want to make her run after me.