Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how should I act around managers that I hate?

johnny_depp

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At work I seriously hate most of my managers there diicks. I am the guy that can make anyone laugh some people say im like an instant friend. but to these managers they dont like me. and I dont like them, I dont give a shiit truthfully. anyways I am around them sometimes. so im wondering how should I act around them? what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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They are in a place to easily make your life miserable moreso than you can make theirs. Do whatever you need to do to stay employed or move on if it's more important for you to get along with everyone that you work with.
 

DJDamage

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johnny_depp said:
I am the guy that can make anyone laugh some people say im like an instant friend
You are the social guy, older manager frawn upon that especially if they see you making friends and goof around rather then doing your job. If you hate most of your managers then there is either something wrong with this job, something is wrong with all the managers or something is wrong with you?! I think you can pretty much check of every catagory.

johnny_depp said:
I dont like them, I dont give a shiit truthfully.
You do give a sh1t, either wise you wouldn't have posted this.

johnny_depp said:
anyways I am around them sometimes. so im wondering how should I act around them? what do you guys think?
Act towards them in a positive way and treat them with respect. Managers are people too and they tend to mirror other's behaviour. If you make them feel good by working hard and being positive towards them, they will also treat you the same. If this doesn't work and they are just d1cks and this job ain't worth it then quit.
 

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johnny_depp said:
At work I seriously hate most of my managers there diicks. I am the guy that can make anyone laugh some people say im like an instant friend. but to these managers they dont like me. and I dont like them, I dont give a shiit truthfully. anyways I am around them sometimes. so im wondering how should I act around them? what do you guys think?
Whenever you come across managers whom you find distasteful, at least try to understand where they are coming from. Rather than wonder how you should behave around them, make a learning experience out of it. Take their objections and criticisms to heart, think about them, and maybe become a better employee and perhaps even a better person. They might be wrong but they might be right.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*evil manager uses Drain Happy Force*
*you counter by Hitting on Hot Chick and Gaining Phone Number*
*Manager gives you extra work flipping french fries*
*You start throwing french fries at another cutie, and she starts throwing them back*
*Manager gets pissed off and tells you to take out the trash*
*You take out trash and take a break, notice 5 set in Van, approach and hits off well*
*Manager walks out and starts screaming at you to stop talking to hot chicks*
*You get numbers from girls and tell them your manager can't pickup any girls *wink**
*You get fired*
*You hit on his daughter and he catches you in bed with her*
*Marrys her*
*Manager hates his life

Another reason why managers shouldn't hate :D
 
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