"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How should a PUA play "emotionally unavailable" game?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ah, I remember when I was emotionally unavailable. friggin great times. now im a lil ***** compared to who i used to be. but don't worry.. will get back to that as soon as im more stable
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In this case the guy was sabbatoging himself but what a reader and RP guy can take from it is the aloofness but in a healthier way.
And the fact that the women was "feeling" all that turbulence and didn't care.
Emotional something is better then emotionless.
Its like all the haters around here who cry about content.
Whether good or bad press your still in the press. Ignore the rest
Trump knows that better than anyone. He is determined to stay relevant at any and all costs.
 

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Play games.. become a walking joke.
That's apparently what you want for yourself.
 

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Look at his wife dude. Woman of her class do not marry idiots. As me how i know this..
You have TDS
Never said he was an idiot. He is very smart and very ruthless. And it all revolves around him.

Once you become of no use to him you are cut out. Doesn't matter if you've been best friends for 25 years. He lacks empathy, the defining characteristic of a sociopath. Most of them don't become serial killers.
 

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You don't have to "play" emotionally available if you are obssessed and into your life, hobbies, career, social life, fun outside of females... You literally won't have much time for emotions to anything else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dude kinda wacked. 1 common denominator amongst the people with your opinion.
As i know several IRL.
You don't actually listen to what comes out of his mouth rather then the media. Which further tells me more about your ability to hear.
And id rather not go into that with you on this thread...thats an entirely different subject altogether and i just got warned again because of the whiners running to the mods. And is just a verification of the state of men these days...so carry on...
Yes I got tired of listening to what came out of his mouth because he would claim the exact opposite of what he claimed a month before when the facts changed and then say he never said what he clearly said previously.

So he either believed his lies so much that he thought he was telling the truth or he thinks the American public is made up of blithering idiots...which to a large degree they are, I can't deny. The rest of the world stereotypes us as "dumb Americans" for a reason.

But forget listening to him. The childish tweets and blatant lies he tweets are bad enough. And that was before the election.
 

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women like guys that arent easy, they get pounded with attention all the time, the aloof guy sparks interest .
 
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