"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How reliable is intuition/gut feeling?

iCatch

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as stupid as it sounds i've googled and searched on this site for IOIs. thing is the reason i did it was to justify my gut feeling that a girl liked me. in the end i was usually right. she did like me. i spent too much time looking online to justify my thoughts.

so the question is, how reliable is our intuition? do you think most of the time that if you think a girl likes you she probably does?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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scribblec

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the way i see it why assume she doesnt? even if a tiny bit of you thinks she likes u theres no harm in trying
 

horaholic

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think positive.Assume the sale.
 

Cableguy

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Alot of AFCs go with their "gut instincts" when they decide to forgive their g/f after catching her sucking off the cableguy. My point being is if you have your **** together and have some game and experience, then let your gut be your guide. If you don't, and still exhibit AFC behaviour, well that's a whole different story. If my gut tells me a chick is diggin me, then that chick is as good as fvcked.
 

WhitePimp

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My gut has served me well...I think I'm at a point where if I can sense something's off, it usually is a dead on assessment
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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