"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

How reliable is intuition/gut feeling?

iCatch

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2008
Messages
102
Reaction score
5
as stupid as it sounds i've googled and searched on this site for IOIs. thing is the reason i did it was to justify my gut feeling that a girl liked me. in the end i was usually right. she did like me. i spent too much time looking online to justify my thoughts.

so the question is, how reliable is our intuition? do you think most of the time that if you think a girl likes you she probably does?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
the way i see it why assume she doesnt? even if a tiny bit of you thinks she likes u theres no harm in trying
 

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
think positive.Assume the sale.
 

Cableguy

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2006
Messages
183
Reaction score
5
Alot of AFCs go with their "gut instincts" when they decide to forgive their g/f after catching her sucking off the cableguy. My point being is if you have your **** together and have some game and experience, then let your gut be your guide. If you don't, and still exhibit AFC behaviour, well that's a whole different story. If my gut tells me a chick is diggin me, then that chick is as good as fvcked.
 

WhitePimp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2004
Messages
802
Reaction score
19
Location
New jersey
My gut has served me well...I think I'm at a point where if I can sense something's off, it usually is a dead on assessment
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top