NeedToImprove
Senior Don Juan
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seriously? im a 9.4 according to 121 people, i think im a 7/7.5. does anyone believe that site?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How reliable is hot or not?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Hey. Come on, buddy...NeedToImprove said:seriously? im a 9.4 according to 121 people, i think im a 7/7.5. does anyone believe that site?
NeedToImprove
Senior Don Juan
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seriously i dont think of myself as a 9, just being logical and realistic mate, just wanting peoples oppinions about the site
It just means you posted a good picture of yourself, pictures more often than not lie anyway unless you can see a set of atleast 20 pictures of someone, I'd never rely on a single one to judge if someone is good looking or not.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
This goes along with the Peter Griffin quote "There are only fat women, Lois"
Your looks shouldn't matter. Your confidence should. If you perceive yourself as lower than what others perceive you as, that's more of a problem than what you actually are in appearance.
Your looks shouldn't matter. Your confidence should. If you perceive yourself as lower than what others perceive you as, that's more of a problem than what you actually are in appearance.
Hotornot is biased. It wants to make you feel good about your looks so that you buy their subscription. Notice how even the most digusting guy or girl dont get anyhting below a 4. Their formula to compute your average score is not the normal formula to compute averages but its a different one that is more likely to give you higher averages.
Just a Shot Away
Master Don Juan
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Haha, that site is such garbage. I haven't looked through there in years up until recently and all the chicks are 7's and above. Most were 9's and above. If a chick is showing her titties, she's getting a 9. If a dude is wearing a military uniform, he's getting a 9. I saw chicks that were 6's at BEST with 9.9's because they were in a sexy pose. Dudes with a nice haircut and tight T-shirt or polo get 9.9's.
The takehome message of this is: HotOrNot is a pure novelty. It does not rate people's looks to any measure of accuracy. However, since women evolved to be sexually attracted to behavior patterns and displays of masculinity, we don't need to worry about our looks.
The takehome message of this is: HotOrNot is a pure novelty. It does not rate people's looks to any measure of accuracy. However, since women evolved to be sexually attracted to behavior patterns and displays of masculinity, we don't need to worry about our looks.