NeedToImprove
Senior Don Juan
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seriously? im a 9.4 according to 121 people, i think im a 7/7.5. does anyone believe that site?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How reliable is hot or not?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Hey. Come on, buddy...NeedToImprove said:seriously? im a 9.4 according to 121 people, i think im a 7/7.5. does anyone believe that site?
NeedToImprove
Senior Don Juan
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seriously i dont think of myself as a 9, just being logical and realistic mate, just wanting peoples oppinions about the site
It just means you posted a good picture of yourself, pictures more often than not lie anyway unless you can see a set of atleast 20 pictures of someone, I'd never rely on a single one to judge if someone is good looking or not.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BustedKnucks
Don Juan
This goes along with the Peter Griffin quote "There are only fat women, Lois"
Your looks shouldn't matter. Your confidence should. If you perceive yourself as lower than what others perceive you as, that's more of a problem than what you actually are in appearance.
Your looks shouldn't matter. Your confidence should. If you perceive yourself as lower than what others perceive you as, that's more of a problem than what you actually are in appearance.
Hotornot is biased. It wants to make you feel good about your looks so that you buy their subscription. Notice how even the most digusting guy or girl dont get anyhting below a 4. Their formula to compute your average score is not the normal formula to compute averages but its a different one that is more likely to give you higher averages.
Just a Shot Away
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Haha, that site is such garbage. I haven't looked through there in years up until recently and all the chicks are 7's and above. Most were 9's and above. If a chick is showing her titties, she's getting a 9. If a dude is wearing a military uniform, he's getting a 9. I saw chicks that were 6's at BEST with 9.9's because they were in a sexy pose. Dudes with a nice haircut and tight T-shirt or polo get 9.9's.
The takehome message of this is: HotOrNot is a pure novelty. It does not rate people's looks to any measure of accuracy. However, since women evolved to be sexually attracted to behavior patterns and displays of masculinity, we don't need to worry about our looks.
The takehome message of this is: HotOrNot is a pure novelty. It does not rate people's looks to any measure of accuracy. However, since women evolved to be sexually attracted to behavior patterns and displays of masculinity, we don't need to worry about our looks.