"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NeedToImprove

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how come some ugly guys and women have so high classifications and others not so ugly have a 2 or a 3 in a scale of 0 to 10 ? i have a 3 and i dont think im that ugly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It all depends on how you present yourself.


you can always improve a few points by wearing the right clothes, projecting the right image, etc..

i got like a 9.4 on there a couple of years back. Of course that required a good picture, leather pants, a tight shirt, etc ;)
 

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Originally posted by NeedToImprove
how come some ugly guys and women have so high classifications and others not so ugly have a 2 or a 3 in a scale of 0 to 10 ? i have a 3 and i dont think im that ugly
Attraction is genetic dont worry about it, haven't you ever had arguments over what you or some of your friends consider beautifful? Everyone finds different things attractive. There are some "globals" but there is lots of variety also.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NeedToImprove

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that's stupid, i have people voting 9 and 10's and 1's, lots of 8's, but the majority are 1's which i think is completely stupid.55 people voted but i will let it stay for some more days or weeks and see for myself, and i definitely dont consider myself as a 1 in a 0-10 scale, a 7 maybe.
 

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I have performed an experiment with hotornot.com by posting different pictures of me. On some of them i had more than 9, others i had between 8 and 9, and some i ended up between 7 and 8.

I noticed that people are very influenced by the amount of skin you show. My shirtless pictures scored really high (i was at 9.9 at some point, lol), while my other pics seemed to score lower.

I noticed the same for girls. Even if a girl has an ugly face, she will have 9+ if she shows some skin or is in a sexy pose.

And yea, i always get a fair amount of 1's too, so dont worry. Hotornot has a system to curve the grades that people give. For example, if someone only gives grades between 1 and 5 to people, his grades will have a real value higher than 5. Maybe his 5's will be worth more like a 10, so...yeah!
 
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