NeedToImprove
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how come some ugly guys and women have so high classifications and others not so ugly have a 2 or a 3 in a scale of 0 to 10 ? i have a 3 and i dont think im that ugly
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How real is voting in Hot or Not or similar websites
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
It all depends on how you present yourself.
you can always improve a few points by wearing the right clothes, projecting the right image, etc..
i got like a 9.4 on there a couple of years back. Of course that required a good picture, leather pants, a tight shirt, etc
you can always improve a few points by wearing the right clothes, projecting the right image, etc..
i got like a 9.4 on there a couple of years back. Of course that required a good picture, leather pants, a tight shirt, etc
SonOfTheMostHigh
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Attraction is genetic dont worry about it, haven't you ever had arguments over what you or some of your friends consider beautifful? Everyone finds different things attractive. There are some "globals" but there is lots of variety also.
Depends on how many votes you have, usually whn u have 50 votes or less your score will not be accurate. You should wait until you have 500 votes to get a reliable sample. I think people at hotornot ar fair scorers.
NeedToImprove
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500?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NeedToImprove
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that's stupid, i have people voting 9 and 10's and 1's, lots of 8's, but the majority are 1's which i think is completely stupid.55 people voted but i will let it stay for some more days or weeks and see for myself, and i definitely dont consider myself as a 1 in a 0-10 scale, a 7 maybe.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
I have performed an experiment with hotornot.com by posting different pictures of me. On some of them i had more than 9, others i had between 8 and 9, and some i ended up between 7 and 8.
I noticed that people are very influenced by the amount of skin you show. My shirtless pictures scored really high (i was at 9.9 at some point, lol), while my other pics seemed to score lower.
I noticed the same for girls. Even if a girl has an ugly face, she will have 9+ if she shows some skin or is in a sexy pose.
And yea, i always get a fair amount of 1's too, so dont worry. Hotornot has a system to curve the grades that people give. For example, if someone only gives grades between 1 and 5 to people, his grades will have a real value higher than 5. Maybe his 5's will be worth more like a 10, so...yeah!
I noticed that people are very influenced by the amount of skin you show. My shirtless pictures scored really high (i was at 9.9 at some point, lol), while my other pics seemed to score lower.
I noticed the same for girls. Even if a girl has an ugly face, she will have 9+ if she shows some skin or is in a sexy pose.
And yea, i always get a fair amount of 1's too, so dont worry. Hotornot has a system to curve the grades that people give. For example, if someone only gives grades between 1 and 5 to people, his grades will have a real value higher than 5. Maybe his 5's will be worth more like a 10, so...yeah!