"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NeedToImprove

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how come some ugly guys and women have so high classifications and others not so ugly have a 2 or a 3 in a scale of 0 to 10 ? i have a 3 and i dont think im that ugly
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It all depends on how you present yourself.


you can always improve a few points by wearing the right clothes, projecting the right image, etc..

i got like a 9.4 on there a couple of years back. Of course that required a good picture, leather pants, a tight shirt, etc ;)
 

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Originally posted by NeedToImprove
how come some ugly guys and women have so high classifications and others not so ugly have a 2 or a 3 in a scale of 0 to 10 ? i have a 3 and i dont think im that ugly
Attraction is genetic dont worry about it, haven't you ever had arguments over what you or some of your friends consider beautifful? Everyone finds different things attractive. There are some "globals" but there is lots of variety also.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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that's stupid, i have people voting 9 and 10's and 1's, lots of 8's, but the majority are 1's which i think is completely stupid.55 people voted but i will let it stay for some more days or weeks and see for myself, and i definitely dont consider myself as a 1 in a 0-10 scale, a 7 maybe.
 

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I have performed an experiment with hotornot.com by posting different pictures of me. On some of them i had more than 9, others i had between 8 and 9, and some i ended up between 7 and 8.

I noticed that people are very influenced by the amount of skin you show. My shirtless pictures scored really high (i was at 9.9 at some point, lol), while my other pics seemed to score lower.

I noticed the same for girls. Even if a girl has an ugly face, she will have 9+ if she shows some skin or is in a sexy pose.

And yea, i always get a fair amount of 1's too, so dont worry. Hotornot has a system to curve the grades that people give. For example, if someone only gives grades between 1 and 5 to people, his grades will have a real value higher than 5. Maybe his 5's will be worth more like a 10, so...yeah!
 
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