"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How quickly do you guys NEXT a girl and why?

AttackFormation

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1) Many, various signs of interpersonal mental disharmony and dilapidation. This one is the most important
2) Helplessly boring
3) Dumb
4) On another mental plane. This means that she is basically a healthy person and I just don't hit it off with her as well as with others, just like you prefer some people as friends and some not

That's it.

A conglomerate of traits that would fail the screening, with each trait being from one of the piece of garbage girls I've talked to/met this year and helped me swear to always screen 100%: she talks and behaves viscerally and impulsively and doesn't have balanced introspection or perspective, her response to warm physical contact is cold or indifferent, she is attached to some form of substance drug (wine/beer/vodka/cigarettes/snuff/drugs), I feel like I can't converse and/or have a good time with her, she takes things like celebrities/pop-media seriously, she displays traits that are narcissistic, borderline/bipolar, histrionic, etc. (doesn't mean she needs to have a diagnose, I go by a spectrum).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Love the reasons here! This thread got more responses than I expected.

Keep 'em coming guys!

My most hated moment is when a girl goes ghost, even though she was initially interested. Sometimes I'll text them that I got back together with an ex I recently had sex with and we're trying to work things out. Or if I know she's playing games, she's not that attractive.
 
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