"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how quickly do women settle/sleep with just 1 guy from internet dating?

big weezy

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hot women who are on match.com, plenty of fish etc who are looking for a serious relationship, how quickly do they settle for 1 guy once they deem him suitable for what she is looking for?

I understand most are attention wh0res on there but if they go on one internet date and the guy does amazing, how likely is she to go on another date with another internet guy if the first guy has done so well?

at the point of them having s3x, if she's really into that 1 guy does she stop seeing the others?

it just disgusts me a little she'll make out with this guy and that one in the interim while she secures the one she really wants. I think the disgust is borne a little of jealousy and envy especially if you are not that MAIN guy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mantis Toboggan

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If a woman likes you, and believes that you could/would easily ditch her for a better woman, then she will stay with you from Day 1.

The problem a lot of guys on this site have is, they focus on one girl, and the girl KNOWS that she is your focus.

Basically, if a girl is put in the position of pursuing YOU, then she will stick around.

Women choose quality over quantity. Just because she CAN go bang 100 dudes doesn't mean she will. Focus on being a quality guy and although dating won't be perfect, you'll have an advantage over most of the guys out there.
 

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a lady friend of mine has a great boy friend, they've been together since June.

He's pretty much exactly what she has been looking for.

She still has a match profile and checks it daily, also tells me she is "single" yet posts photos of them together on facebook.

My theory is....he doesn't make enough $$$
 
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