"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how quickly do women settle/sleep with just 1 guy from internet dating?

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hot women who are on match.com, plenty of fish etc who are looking for a serious relationship, how quickly do they settle for 1 guy once they deem him suitable for what she is looking for?

I understand most are attention wh0res on there but if they go on one internet date and the guy does amazing, how likely is she to go on another date with another internet guy if the first guy has done so well?

at the point of them having s3x, if she's really into that 1 guy does she stop seeing the others?

it just disgusts me a little she'll make out with this guy and that one in the interim while she secures the one she really wants. I think the disgust is borne a little of jealousy and envy especially if you are not that MAIN guy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If a woman likes you, and believes that you could/would easily ditch her for a better woman, then she will stay with you from Day 1.

The problem a lot of guys on this site have is, they focus on one girl, and the girl KNOWS that she is your focus.

Basically, if a girl is put in the position of pursuing YOU, then she will stick around.

Women choose quality over quantity. Just because she CAN go bang 100 dudes doesn't mean she will. Focus on being a quality guy and although dating won't be perfect, you'll have an advantage over most of the guys out there.
 
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a lady friend of mine has a great boy friend, they've been together since June.

He's pretty much exactly what she has been looking for.

She still has a match profile and checks it daily, also tells me she is "single" yet posts photos of them together on facebook.

My theory is....he doesn't make enough $$$
 
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