“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How physically aggressive should a man be?

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The last 4-5 girls I’ve been out with, Ive been pretty aggressive on the physical to the point they say “its too rough” or “do you want to take a break” or “it’s too much“ or nothing but I’m forcing myself fairly aggressively.

Granted I may have pushed it a few times, but the point is, none of these girls are virgins and some are divorced. Fairly certain they have given it up pretty fast to the 6’1 alpha male in high school or latest college when they were fresher and younger and hotter. My thinking is: if they don’t give it up as fast or faster now, they are playing me for a sucker.

Do I have the point to push it as far and as fast as possible? Thoughts?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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As physically aggressive as she superficially believes he should come off as. When a cute, baby face guy tries to act aggressive, a woman will look at him like he's crazy. If a stoic faced, masculine and tough looking guy does it, she will feel as if it's natural for him to be that way. This is important to know.

Now, what you're asking is not really what the title suggests in plain text.

You're asking whether you should pry her for sex sooner than later because you feel if you don't give it up or layeth the pipeth, she will move on or play you.

All I gotta say is as men, we do how we feel. Now cues help alot and a lot of guys rely on cues before they make any moves. All I can say is it never hurts to try when you feel its right. All it takes is very basic levels of social skills to know whether a girl wants to f.uck or not. If you feel you have to "push it as far and fast as possible" , somethings wrong. And in this case, it would be fear. Operate on feeling and desire not on fear.
 

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The last 4-5 girls I’ve been out with, Ive been pretty aggressive on the physical to the point they say “its too rough” or “do you want to take a break” or “it’s too much“ or nothing but I’m forcing myself fairly aggressively.

Granted I may have pushed it a few times, but the point is, none of these girls are virgins and some are divorced. Fairly certain they have given it up pretty fast to the 6’1 alpha male in high school or latest college when they were fresher and younger and hotter. My thinking is: if they don’t give it up as fast or faster now, they are playing me for a sucker.

Do I have the point to push it as far and as fast as possible? Thoughts?
If you are looking for a trashy women or women who has no self esteem then maybe. If you are looking for a quality woman this thinking is assinine.

Are you worried that she won't want to see you again? Do you have no value to offer her so that you think if you don't get it now you won't have another chance now that she actually spent some time with you?

It comes off as desperate and off-putting past a certain point.
 

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If you are looking for a trashy women or women who has no self esteem then maybe. If you are looking for a quality woman this thinking is assinine.

Are you worried that she won't want to see you again? Do you have no value to offer her so that you think if you don't get it now you won't have another chance now that she actually spent some time with you?

It comes off as desperate and off-putting past a certain point.
I laugh when I hear quality women. I know what you mean but I don't know that it exists especially in the western world.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I've had women ask me to basically rape them before, just full control, others are leery of any aggression.

This is not the type of thing where one behavior will address all needs, this is a nuanced thing and you WILL get yourself into trouble eventually if those nuances are not respected.
 

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I think your quality woman notion is dated at best but thanks for coming. Please... Story time about unicorns. I am excited. #Semi
Nah, they are out there. Your issue seems to be equating fast sex with compatibility. That's not a recipe for finding a quality woman, which likely explains why you think that way.
 

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I think your quality woman notion is dated at best but thanks for coming. Please... Story time about unicorns. I am excited. #Semi
You and @BackInTheGame78 are both right in a way, at least you perspectives aren't necessarily wrong.

@DEEZEDBRAH, your methods do quickly screen out a lot of bullsh!t from women but you could potentially be throwing the baby out with the bathwater by doing so. I reckon you're not worried about whether you will or wont miss out on a "quality" woman, because you either don't believe quality women exist, or you're purely interested in the next conquest and not "playing house". Fair play to you.

Do I have the point to push it as far and as fast as possible? Thoughts?
What's your intention of pushing it as far and fast as possible? To get laid ASAP? To avoid games?

Physically aggressive in what sense? Just in bed, or aggressive attempts to escalate with women in general?

It sounds like you may be acting too aggressive, why? Is it intentional or contrived, in order to achieve a desired outcome? Or do you just lack self-restraint?

Your end game matters... what is it? Just a quick lay, or maybe something more?

More clarity around your question would help, but with the information you've given so far: No, you don't have to push it as far and as fast possible.
 

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Nah, they are out there. Your issue seems to be equating fast sex with compatibility. That's not a recipe for finding a quality woman, which likely explains why you think that way.


In loving memory of Sir Herman (full homo sexuality lulz Jk).

The quality woman part cracks me up. I swear modern women need a bar code. They all look different but they behave and parrot the same ****. I question whether or not such a thing existed. Tbh if not for the culture and times in the fifties, women will behave badly. They are single minded and operate in a predictable manner. The more degenerate society becomes and the further indoctrination is cranked up, the harder women Double down.

You have post wall forty something talking kids one day. You can't make it up.
 

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You and @BackInTheGame78 are both right in a way, at least you perspectives aren't necessarily wrong.

@DEEZEDBRAH, your methods do quickly screen out a lot of bullsh!t from women but you could potentially be throwing the baby out with the bathwater by doing so. I reckon you're not worried about whether you will or wont miss out on a "quality" woman, because you either don't believe quality women exist, or you're purely interested in the next conquest and not "playing house". Fair play to you.
Prospect mate, that's why I love the game. Gun to the head, forced to run game, theirs abundance of ways to play. In the game, I will say, I have met cool women but I have never met anyone I would marry nor be willing to not cut loose and end game. In my lifetime, I can count on a hand women worth a damn. Still, I won't bend the knee.


What's your intention of pushing it as far and fast as possible? To get laid ASAP? To avoid games?
I want to pay respect to the OGs of the past. There's a reason why the gold standards three days or #next. Hell, I literally next on a whim. It is awful for longevity of a rotation and erosion is just another day at the office. It's what killed the blue pills ideal and Disney on ice crap men are fed from a young age. I probably wasted far too much time on pickup tbh but I was that obsessed with the game, getting my **** handled, and the most blue pill at one time or another. There's no way back. I will say, if my tune was to ever change, I likely am ARC old and I just want to chill. Maybe have a kid and wtf happens after, I am too old to give a ****kk.

I have parts of me that desire to cross that bridge. Tbh not sure how knowing what I know.

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Physically aggressive in what sense? Just in bed, or aggressive attempts to escalate with women in general?
BED. Though Kevin Samuels describes a low level of threat. There should always be that element. Modern women are so delusional. The potential fallout is going over most women's head today. I stated before, unless it's my girl, bottom *****, wife or mother of my child, I will not engage if a woman is getting in a man's face. She thinks she's a tough guy. I am checked out and I will enjoy the decline.

It sounds like you may be acting too aggressive, why? Is it intentional or contrived, in order to achieve a desired outcome? Or do you just lack self-restraint?

Your end game matters... what is it? Just a quick lay, or maybe something more?

More clarity around your question would help, but with the information you've given so far: No, you don't have to push it as far and as fast possible.
Op needs to step up to women with that man to woman vibe. There needs to be that low level risk of potential danger. Women are provoked by the following.

Modern men are soy boys. I blame low testosterone.
 

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What's your intention of pushing it as far and fast as possible? To get laid ASAP? To avoid games?
To see if the attraction is on a primal level or for resources.

It sounds like you may be acting too aggressive, why? Is it intentional or contrived, in order to achieve a desired outcome? Or do you just lack self-restraint?

Your end game matters... what is it? Just a quick lay, or maybe something more?
Again, it's to see if the sex is on a primal level or for resources.

I think that's the major problem men have in general with women. Men always want the sex with a woman to be on a primal level (strong dominant alpha male), especially when the woman is young and fresh. Yet when women get older, they have sex on a transactional level. (beta male)

Essentially why men want prenups and women don't.
 

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With women I want to fvck immediately or within few days I'm extremely aggressive, ****y. Never had any of them said I'm being too pushy.

However if I'm on a first date with a really quality girl, chances are they will not like that,first kiss happens around second date.
 
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