"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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From what I noticed, most replies on this board are 90% flaming and 10% are actual good helpful ones.

I think if you are going to reply to someone's problem, the way to go about is to give the person in that bad situation THE BEST possible solution or way out of it instead of bringing that person down. I'm not just speaking for myself but to other people on this board.

People who are asking stupid questions such as but not limited to: "does she like me" then yes, I think that person deserves flaming.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There used to be a prominent, and obvious, link to the DJ bible on every page of the forum. Now this link is hidden on the bottom of the forum pages and nobody can see it unless they are looking for it. THE BEST possible answers are likely to have been covered in that link but nobody reads it anymore. That is the fault of the admin here who would rather put up money making links and not be proud of the free information that has flowed through this site.

I agree that there is too much negativity on this site, but at the same time there is too much redundancy in threads. Anyone who wants to know the answer to their questions can use the search function to find similar topics. Most of the time the threads on the main forum just show how little experience guys on here actually have. If being heartbroken by a girl that they dont know is such a huge deal imagine when they get married, have a kid or two, and there wife decides to leave them out of no where. This board is so dramatic over non-issues that it has no idea how to deal with real issues most of the time.

Guys who ask what a DJ would shift into at 33 mph in a 5 speed have no idea what life is about let alone being an independent man. They should be flamed.
 
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I think if you are going to reply to someone's problem, the way to go about is to give the person in that bad situation THE BEST possible solution or way out of it instead of bringing that person down.
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totally agree, some of my posts are pretty rude and vulgar and i think I lose the ability to properly communicate with others (i hate that).
 
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Oh yes, lets not include the constant struggle for Trolls to survive when they keep getting killed off. That makes up for err...80% of the crap like the above.

Umhmm..

I disagree somewhat though. If the poster is acting like a complete tool, or it's a simple answer, they NEED to be beaten over the head. If I had a baseball bat and I cracked it over your foot everytime you said 'like', you'd learn to stop real quick. Same analogy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OP, I disagree with everything you said. This forum is for helping to make men. What it is NOT for is holding hands arround a campfire and singing folk songs.

You may not believe it, but sometimes a good kick in the ass is a good step forward. I think if you get whiny and can't handle being made fun of, then you really need to go see a doctor to get your testosterone levels checked.

I'll give you a peice of advice. If you take everything personally and expect everyone to sing James Blunt songs with you, then you my friend are in for a long, long ride.
 
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I agree with the original poster. There's just way too much BS on this site. You can't post anything without most people insulting you.
 
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SharinganUser said:
OP, I disagree with everything you said. This forum is for helping to make men. What it is NOT for is holding hands arround a campfire and singing folk songs.

You may not believe it, but sometimes a good kick in the ass is a good step forward. I think if you get whiny and can't handle being made fun of, then you really need to go see a doctor to get your testosterone levels checked.

I'll give you a peice of advice. If you take everything personally and expect everyone to sing James Blunt songs with you, then you my friend are in for a long, long ride.
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You can give someone a kick in the pants without insulting and degrading them. I see a lot more insults than actual helpful information here. Maybe this site initially started as a way to help guys with girl problems, but it's turned into a flame board. Most so-called "DJ's" here are probably nothing of the sort. They just like to get their kicks by making fun of people with legitimate problems. I'm done with this site.
 
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Puh-lease. Spare me. The only person that is responsible for how you feel, is you. If you get offended, it is because you let the insult get to you. Real men don't let other people control them. So when a couple of morons type something that you don't like, and you decide to stop coming here, you are in fact letting them have control over what sites you visit.
 
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SharinganUser said:
Puh-lease. Spare me. The only person that is responsible for how you feel, is you. If you get offended, it is because you let the insult get to you. Real men don't let other people control them. So when a couple of morons type something that you don't like, and you decide to stop coming here, you are in fact letting them have control over what sites you visit.
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It's not just a couple of guys. It's most of the people on this board. I'm not letting anyone control me. I'll go to any forum I want to, and I'll leave when I want to. "Real men" don't have to put other people down to make themselves feel better.

There's so much disinformation on this site it's not even funny.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes you are being controlled. Cowardly even, instead of standing up to these idiots, or ignoring them you run away.
 
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