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How old were you when you got your 1st car? What kind of ride was it?
Did you lease or purchase? Buy new or used?
Did you lease or purchase? Buy new or used?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Come on,ANY car can be made fast...but that's it. Fast isn't anything,go to an autocross and learn about a car's real ability. Speed is 1/3(speed,braking & handling) of a car's performance,but then the driver matters more then any of those. By the way I don't care about speed,I have a 911 in the garage that flys up to 165 then it decides to slow down but still gains speed.djSlvt said:My stang will kill every exotic 11 sec or above, that's pretty much everything under $200 grand.
That's exactly why it won roadster of the year for something like 5 out of it's first 10 years in production from Car & Driver huh? It's balanced, the braking is excellent,the handling is world class(only car to ever beat an Enzo on twisties) and the power is adequate,not a speed demon.djSlvt said:Not that it's a good car.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
blinkwatt said:True most non-American cars may lack torque but there are still some Monsters if you have the money.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Toyota Supra and Nissan Skylyner will smoke your car. :crackup:djSlvt said:You're what we call a ricer. There isn't a turbo for corolla, there is a supercharger. Turbo only if you can do it yourself or can afford some major hours at a nice shop.
Blinkwatt? How did you get your car? You must be some lucky bastard to buy boxter at 18, maybe you had help from parents. Not that it's a good car. When it comes to envying a guy with an exotic, I like this one a lot. My stang will kill every exotic 11 sec or above, that's pretty much everything under $200 grand.
djSlvt said:with a better handling..
my bad. I just read about it in a mag and got the terminology wrong, professor.There isn't a turbo for corolla, there is a supercharger. Turbo only if you can do it yourself or can afford some major hours at a nice shop.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.