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Bud_Fox
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How old were you when you got your 1st car? What kind of ride was it?
Did you lease or purchase? Buy new or used?
Did you lease or purchase? Buy new or used?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Come on,ANY car can be made fast...but that's it. Fast isn't anything,go to an autocross and learn about a car's real ability. Speed is 1/3(speed,braking & handling) of a car's performance,but then the driver matters more then any of those. By the way I don't care about speed,I have a 911 in the garage that flys up to 165 then it decides to slow down but still gains speed.djSlvt said:My stang will kill every exotic 11 sec or above, that's pretty much everything under $200 grand.
That's exactly why it won roadster of the year for something like 5 out of it's first 10 years in production from Car & Driver huh? It's balanced, the braking is excellent,the handling is world class(only car to ever beat an Enzo on twisties) and the power is adequate,not a speed demon.djSlvt said:Not that it's a good car.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
blinkwatt said:True most non-American cars may lack torque but there are still some Monsters if you have the money.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Toyota Supra and Nissan Skylyner will smoke your car. :crackup:djSlvt said:You're what we call a ricer. There isn't a turbo for corolla, there is a supercharger. Turbo only if you can do it yourself or can afford some major hours at a nice shop.
Blinkwatt? How did you get your car? You must be some lucky bastard to buy boxter at 18, maybe you had help from parents. Not that it's a good car. When it comes to envying a guy with an exotic, I like this one a lot. My stang will kill every exotic 11 sec or above, that's pretty much everything under $200 grand.
djSlvt said:with a better handling..
my bad. I just read about it in a mag and got the terminology wrong, professor.There isn't a turbo for corolla, there is a supercharger. Turbo only if you can do it yourself or can afford some major hours at a nice shop.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.