Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How old is the oldest woman you have laid?

Downlow

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my record is 44 (this was a few years ago now). It is true what they say about older ladies, you can do anything with them, and now i wish i was more adventurous! I was actually extremely nervous about going to meet her in her house.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt

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It's not polite to ask a woman her age, but I once enjoyed the company of a swinger in Florida who by my guess was in her mid 50's. If she had any limits, I never found them...
 

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Ha!

I was 35. She hit on me on a weekday afternoon at a bar in Hollywood.

We had a "one-afternoon stand" and she could f**k like a beast. No regrets. She wasn't great or bad looking but she was slender and energetic. :wave:
 

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Nailed a 40 yo when I was 31.

I posted this before in another thread, this is my summary of older vs younger

- Younger woman saying she's not interested : "I am busy"

- Older woman saying she's not interested: "I'm sorry but I dont think its going to work out, good luck!"

- Younger woman saying she wants to sleep with you: "We can go to a movie or go get a drink or do something else." or "Can I crash at your place on the couch?"

- Older woman saying she wants to sleep with you: "I really need some bad, how quick can you get here!? 15 minutes? That's not quick enough!!!!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo Tomassi

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When I was 22 I regularly banged a 41 y.o. and a 43 y.o. The 41 y.o. even gave me a car when mine broke down so i could still come out & nail her on the weekends, heh.
 

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and you are proud of that?
 

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32 when I was 23..
 

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Prolly 30something. Women in their 30s can fvck like champs. My first time was with a 36 year old. My best time was with a 32 year old.

I got to third-base with this redhead who said she was 46...but she was still in DAMN good shape for that age.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ever onward

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39 year old. Banged her just the other night. Not sure if it counts though as I've been hitting her on and off for nearly six years now.
 

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49 ex stripper.

She sure knew how to work her poon.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
The 41 y.o. even gave me a car when mine broke down so i could still come out & nail her on the weekends, heh.
I would be proud of that, lol!
I have never actively tried to pickup a milf (except for the 44yo ), but it is interesting because they will never think that you are approaching them for a PU and so don't have a biatchshield, and also you don't have any real expectation and so you are completely laid back about it. (This is unless you're specifically after milf, or that the milf is actively after some fresh young meat!)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rollo Tomassi

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sparky0000 said:
and you are proud of that?
Never really thought of being proud about it, it's just what happened. Both of these women were really just glorified FBs for me. I actually learned quite a bit about how women age, their sexually marketability as they age and this phase of a woman's maturity with respect to what's been conditioned in them from these women - and I got laid quite a bit while I doing so too. Both of them met my physical standards and I wanted to try it out with an older woman.

I also found out that hitting it with older women was almost too easy since the imperative for older women (particularly divorced ones) is to affirm themselves and their waning sexual marketability after their mid 30s. And nothing gives them more affirmation than a 22 y.o., muscular guy to show off to their also aging girlfriends and their overweight ex-husbands while getting sexual gratification too.

As I said this makes it too easy for guys just coming into their own with women and it kind of gives them a false sense of desirability. The ease of approach and the degree of success young guys have with older women rarely translates to women their own age since they have completely different priorities for the criteria a man needs to get her intimacy. This then leads guys to "prefering" older women because they're easier and the fear of rejection is marginalized, when what they need to do is learn to approach and close with all kinds of women, younger, older or their own age. All that's not to discourage a guy from hitting it with an older woman, just a warning not to let yourself become too wrapped up in the ease of it all.
 

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Oldest 46,

When they're in great shape for their age (ie slender, athletic) and h0rny, a lot can be learned and some good s3x too!

Rollo Tomassi said:
As I said this makes it too easy for guys just coming into their own with women and it kind of gives them a false sense of desirability. The ease of approach and the degree of success young guys have with older women rarely translates to women their own age since they have completely different priorities for the criteria a man needs to get her intimacy. This then leads guys to "prefering" older women because they're easier and the fear of rejection is marginalized, when what they need to do is learn to approach and close with all kinds of women, younger, older or their own age. All that's not to discourage a guy from hitting it with an older woman, just a warning not to let yourself become too wrapped up in the ease of it all.
...much wisdom in these words.
 

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31 is actually a relatively young woman and not too far from her prime.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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