"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How old do you have to be before you become "the creepy old guy" at a college bar?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hitman10000
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Rules, rules.. Pshaw.lookyoung said:
Women date men they are attracted to. Period.
Espescially when they ovulate
One of my ex's had a thing for Bin Ladin, and Charleton Heston. Considered both of them to be quite hot actually. She was rather young.
Gentlemen, remember that the only rules are, there are no rules. Women may display traits that befuddle you to no end while you try to fit them in your own boxes. What attracts them would blow your mind, a virile older man who is a man, not an over grown boy with something to prove, which frankly most of us here are, and do. This forum's about self growth.
Frankly, being a "Don Juan" is about options and choosing your own path. If I want to bang unstable 19 year hotties in public bathrooms, well there you go. If I want to be a celibate gentleman and politely court them, well there you go. Have a code, and live to it.
What is your end goal? What do you seek?
As for zergkiller, I like you. That said, the idea that sex is for reproduction misses the point.. Sex is about many things, among them is creation, that could be biological creation, it could be intellectual creation, it could be artistic creation. Reproduction is a subset of creation. This was the secret Napoleon Hill wrote about, and it's as old as the hills. Women and sexuality are powerful urges in a man's life. How many lands have been conquered or buildings built out of desire, sublimated?
But take away the chick and harness the energy itself, sexuality can fuel conquest of lands and inner horizons. It's the tender and the match and the fuel. It's NOT about physical sexual intercourse, its about sexuality - being a man, and everything that entails.
As for copulation, and union, reproduction, creation, emotional bonds, and frankly, sheer pleasure - to get our rocks off.
Do we simply eat to life, or do we also eat to savor and enjoy? Primarly we eat to keep our backs up, secondarlly.. well, the stuff tastes good.