"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How old do you have to be before you become "the creepy old guy" at a college bar?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hitman10000
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Rules, rules.. Pshaw.lookyoung said:
Women date men they are attracted to. Period.
Espescially when they ovulate
One of my ex's had a thing for Bin Ladin, and Charleton Heston. Considered both of them to be quite hot actually. She was rather young.
Gentlemen, remember that the only rules are, there are no rules. Women may display traits that befuddle you to no end while you try to fit them in your own boxes. What attracts them would blow your mind, a virile older man who is a man, not an over grown boy with something to prove, which frankly most of us here are, and do. This forum's about self growth.
Frankly, being a "Don Juan" is about options and choosing your own path. If I want to bang unstable 19 year hotties in public bathrooms, well there you go. If I want to be a celibate gentleman and politely court them, well there you go. Have a code, and live to it.
What is your end goal? What do you seek?
As for zergkiller, I like you. That said, the idea that sex is for reproduction misses the point.. Sex is about many things, among them is creation, that could be biological creation, it could be intellectual creation, it could be artistic creation. Reproduction is a subset of creation. This was the secret Napoleon Hill wrote about, and it's as old as the hills. Women and sexuality are powerful urges in a man's life. How many lands have been conquered or buildings built out of desire, sublimated?
But take away the chick and harness the energy itself, sexuality can fuel conquest of lands and inner horizons. It's the tender and the match and the fuel. It's NOT about physical sexual intercourse, its about sexuality - being a man, and everything that entails.
As for copulation, and union, reproduction, creation, emotional bonds, and frankly, sheer pleasure - to get our rocks off.
Do we simply eat to life, or do we also eat to savor and enjoy? Primarly we eat to keep our backs up, secondarlly.. well, the stuff tastes good.