"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Epicurus

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how often do you get tested. When was the last time.
For those that don’t know. Look up the amount of people with an STD then look at yourself in the mirror. From now on I have a new rule. You want to have sex? Let’s get tested, I know I’m clean
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Agreed. I've always shown my STD tests when requested. However, there was a time during in the heat of the moment a couple of women didn't answer me and I stopped. Really pissed them off and I never heard from them again. One even accused me of thinking she was a slut because I asked her about STDs and the last time she was tested.

Sometimes, I wonder if it's worth the risks, stress and frustrations to continue on with the dating dance.
 

Epicurus

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
 

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
 

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Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
Quite possibly the dumbest post I've ever read on SoSuave. You've beaten out RichardTheFrog. Congrats.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Further rationalization. Check-list:

This is consensual, right , right?
You have no STDS, right right?
Do you have a psyche report while you are at it?
You won't take a selfie will you?
You're not a stalker by any chance?

sex in the twenty-first century is in a sad state.
 
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