"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epicurus

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how often do you get tested. When was the last time.
For those that don’t know. Look up the amount of people with an STD then look at yourself in the mirror. From now on I have a new rule. You want to have sex? Let’s get tested, I know I’m clean
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agreed. I've always shown my STD tests when requested. However, there was a time during in the heat of the moment a couple of women didn't answer me and I stopped. Really pissed them off and I never heard from them again. One even accused me of thinking she was a slut because I asked her about STDs and the last time she was tested.

Sometimes, I wonder if it's worth the risks, stress and frustrations to continue on with the dating dance.
 

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
 

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
 

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Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
Quite possibly the dumbest post I've ever read on SoSuave. You've beaten out RichardTheFrog. Congrats.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Further rationalization. Check-list:

This is consensual, right , right?
You have no STDS, right right?
Do you have a psyche report while you are at it?
You won't take a selfie will you?
You're not a stalker by any chance?

sex in the twenty-first century is in a sad state.
 
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