"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Epicurus

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how often do you get tested. When was the last time.
For those that don’t know. Look up the amount of people with an STD then look at yourself in the mirror. From now on I have a new rule. You want to have sex? Let’s get tested, I know I’m clean
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Agreed. I've always shown my STD tests when requested. However, there was a time during in the heat of the moment a couple of women didn't answer me and I stopped. Really pissed them off and I never heard from them again. One even accused me of thinking she was a slut because I asked her about STDs and the last time she was tested.

Sometimes, I wonder if it's worth the risks, stress and frustrations to continue on with the dating dance.
 

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
 

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Instead of field reports. Show us your STD results, let’s make it happen boys
Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
 

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Who gets STD reports these days? Casual sex is the norm. So is failing to face reality, that there are consiquences, when the wang is on public display.
Quite possibly the dumbest post I've ever read on SoSuave. You've beaten out RichardTheFrog. Congrats.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Further rationalization. Check-list:

This is consensual, right , right?
You have no STDS, right right?
Do you have a psyche report while you are at it?
You won't take a selfie will you?
You're not a stalker by any chance?

sex in the twenty-first century is in a sad state.
 
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