I call his girl very rarely (she'll usually call me at night to talk) and I'll text her once a day to see what going on, sometimes more sometimes less. She tells me she's dissapointed I don't call on her lunch to see how she's doing though. She's feels like I don't really like her sometimes she said. Is this a test or should I call more often?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How often to call/text girl in relationship?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
oakraiderz2
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My girl and i text/call each other everyday and usually hang out too.
Walking Anomaly
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If you want the relationship to fall apart, continue to act too busy. I made this mistake in the past and it drove one of my gfs away.
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
Crazy Asian
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yes, if it's a solid relationship i'd call a bit more.Walking Anomaly said:If you want the relationship to fall apart, continue to act too busy. I made this mistake in the past and it drove one of my gfs away.
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
but don't do it in hopes of getting her to like you more.... do it as a reward for her being good.
but if it's girls your just hooking up with, i wouldn't call unless i had something planned.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
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This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.Crazy Asian said:yes, if it's a solid relationship i'd call a bit more.
but don't do it in hopes of getting her to like you more.... do it as a reward for her being good.
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True. A lot of ppl here (especially inexperienced ones) are brainwashed and crammed with ideas/informations and most don't know how/when/where to apply them.oakraiderz2 said:This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.
Agreed. The rules are different when you're in a relationship, but he still has a legitimate question. Some may agree or not with this, but I believe in feed dripping content with women just like I do as an online marketer.oakraiderz2 said:This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.
In other words, it's best to call once a day than 5 times per day. twice per week than twice per day. Now, calling when you want to talk to her can backfire. What if you're obseseed with her? Well, you'll want to talk to her ALL THE TIME. So controlling yourself is not only best with women, but anything in life. I can spend $10k on your product, but email me 5 times a day, and I'm running for the hills.