I call his girl very rarely (she'll usually call me at night to talk) and I'll text her once a day to see what going on, sometimes more sometimes less. She tells me she's dissapointed I don't call on her lunch to see how she's doing though. She's feels like I don't really like her sometimes she said. Is this a test or should I call more often?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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oakraiderz2
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My girl and i text/call each other everyday and usually hang out too.
Walking Anomaly
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If you want the relationship to fall apart, continue to act too busy. I made this mistake in the past and it drove one of my gfs away.
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
Crazy Asian
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yes, if it's a solid relationship i'd call a bit more.Walking Anomaly said:If you want the relationship to fall apart, continue to act too busy. I made this mistake in the past and it drove one of my gfs away.
What women crave is to be appreciated for EVERYTHING they do, from leaving a note in ur lunch to calling you on your break to talk. It can be a pain and you may think its corny and so do i lol, but it should be done. Call them a bit more often jus to let em kno youre thinkin about em even when youre not with them. Again it sounds corny but women LOVE it.
Its not AFC to call her and say whats up every day if youre in a relationship as long as you do it in a confident tone. You dont have to call her only to make plans
~WA
but don't do it in hopes of getting her to like you more.... do it as a reward for her being good.
but if it's girls your just hooking up with, i wouldn't call unless i had something planned.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oakraiderz2
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This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.Crazy Asian said:yes, if it's a solid relationship i'd call a bit more.
but don't do it in hopes of getting her to like you more.... do it as a reward for her being good.
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True. A lot of ppl here (especially inexperienced ones) are brainwashed and crammed with ideas/informations and most don't know how/when/where to apply them.oakraiderz2 said:This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.
Agreed. The rules are different when you're in a relationship, but he still has a legitimate question. Some may agree or not with this, but I believe in feed dripping content with women just like I do as an online marketer.oakraiderz2 said:This is more of the bs that pollutes the site. You dont call your gf to reward her good behavior, thats retarded. You call because you want to talk to her. Everything isnt a little push and pull game. More overthinking in my opinion. You shouldnt have to do anything to get her to like you more except be yourself. I hate these "rule" people have here.
In other words, it's best to call once a day than 5 times per day. twice per week than twice per day. Now, calling when you want to talk to her can backfire. What if you're obseseed with her? Well, you'll want to talk to her ALL THE TIME. So controlling yourself is not only best with women, but anything in life. I can spend $10k on your product, but email me 5 times a day, and I'm running for the hills.