"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How often should you see /contact your new girl

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mikey2012

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heres question for you. You just met new girl ie less than a month . He often should you see her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whenever you have the time and she agrees to meet you and doesn't flake. As you spend more time with her she will become more familiar with you. However, don't smother her or go out of your way to see her.
 
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Start with 'never', and negotiate from there.:p
 
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Talking pretty regularly is okay on text or phone, just keep it light and fun. For the first 3 months, I would say don't go out any more than twice a week. A man's time is valuable and a woman has to earn it.

Every situation is different, but limiting time early allows you to focus on yourself and not get attached too early.
 
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