"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You are worrying quite too much. That young woman has given you all the signs that she is interested and has accepted all your proposals up to now. Why dither?

Don't worry about doing all the perfect moves with her. That young woman is not into playing mind or control games with you at this moment. She just wants the pleasure of frequenting you and experimenting with building a relationship with a boyfriend and growing up to be a woman.

Do the same. If you do a couple of mistakes like we all do, well, it will be part of your acquiring experience. Think firstly of having fun with her. That's what both of you want. Don't ruin it by being too tactical before your age. You have plenty of time in front of you for dealing with the vagaries of complex women strategies.

Don't put that young woman down. She has been a willing participant up to now and she has been positive and shown you all the signs that she's ok. Have fun with her. Be young and free.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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