"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are worrying quite too much. That young woman has given you all the signs that she is interested and has accepted all your proposals up to now. Why dither?

Don't worry about doing all the perfect moves with her. That young woman is not into playing mind or control games with you at this moment. She just wants the pleasure of frequenting you and experimenting with building a relationship with a boyfriend and growing up to be a woman.

Do the same. If you do a couple of mistakes like we all do, well, it will be part of your acquiring experience. Think firstly of having fun with her. That's what both of you want. Don't ruin it by being too tactical before your age. You have plenty of time in front of you for dealing with the vagaries of complex women strategies.

Don't put that young woman down. She has been a willing participant up to now and she has been positive and shown you all the signs that she's ok. Have fun with her. Be young and free.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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